take valuable lessons in life

take valuable lessons in life-When know, I could not believe it was a man next to me can do it. Since dating, he was kind and patient, although sometimes a bit childish. Keluargapun he was very devoted to willingly sacrifice anything for his beloved mother. Born as the son of a widow, twists and turns hard life finally be served due to the father's actions were irresponsible. Perhaps that is the cause of his attitude rather rough and hard, the environment has changed it.

The days that we've been through the ups and downs of life is full, hard, and felt glad we went through together because he just came from a family that is very simple, all bear the burden of life and family, while I was a nomads from across the region.

He began his career as a salesman in a large company, at the time we had reached the age of exploration of 2 years, we decided to get married and within two years he also has shown good performance in the company where she worked so now it has become a manager.

He loved little children, so the first time he learned that I was pregnant, how excited he, can be seen from the direct actions at that time also early contact our family, the one he calls just to preach pregnancy.

He greatly appreciated the time off with me especially Saturday and Sunday, since courtship was he did not want anyone disturbing new day can be acquired through must pass 5 working days.

He really did not like anything that has to do with the affair because he should be forced to see and feel the bitterness of life, therefore, is why he never condone any form when associated with the word.

That's why I put him as a most faithful husband to his wife, and I feel lucky to be his wife.

Even sometimes I said from the heart, my husband is a wise example for other husbands.

But today it all predicates that have vanished in an instant I admire. I do not believe it can happen to me that did not occur to me let alone imagine breathing.

Turns out he was having an affair with a woman who is much younger than me, about 8 years. Admission already 2 weeks relationship was forged. Any defense of that relationship, of no feeling anything to not do anything, I was not able to digest it again, my mind was still stunned at his actions against the betrayal of our love.

That day he had sacrificed our schedule on Saturday to mengontrolkan womb turns stated that there rubella virus. She went to her from morning to night.

Apparently God still wants to save our relationship, the next woman and known even then call me. Squabbles going on until I say the words that I really do not watch to say, DIVORCE.

Previously, he once told me that if a person can change in a short time, it is impossible, most likely it's just pretend unless there is something that makes a person is in shock.

I feel now this is possible because both the cause, SHOCK.

He was shocked by the result of the actions that make our home destroyed. Now he has changed completely, absolutely total until I too seemed to no longer recognize the person for 9 months sleeping beside me. Amendments amazed me, afraid that it was only temporary, I want to feel it for good, touch is soft, sweet words, calls unfortunately that made me feel flattered, I'm afraid that it is only for a moment, his attitude is far from the previous. Such request after that, I will endeavor to forget the treachery though God knows how long the effect can only be gone from me.

I became self-conscious, being very shy, timid and afraid to meet people we knew, moody and sad when it arrived Saturday, trauma although just by looking at the clothes he was wearing that day. Suddenly can cry and suddenly could moody, like a bad dream and cry in the middle of the night. But I'm still grateful, because of the incident, our relationship is better than ever even though sometimes I feel sad when he forgot to be gentle, I even consider the true nature of her is softness, so if softness was forgotten by him, I'm trying to entertain self that is the original soft while the rough is not.

I said to myself, give him a chance to fix it, do not corner him, give him the confidence and encouragement that he was able to fix it. Now I'm always trying to reflect on themselves over this incident, from books or from the article, I became a diligent search. Perhaps intimacy and affection we will feel more complete in valentine day later, I'm looking forward to that day arrives quickly. my husband said there was a surprise for me, while I also have prepared a special gift for him.

Friends, sometimes we never know who was once someone in front of us, whether he is the villain or the like, but the important thing is that now, in front of us, a friendly and deserves a heap of praise. Love does not always have, but when you've had, we should be fine keeping and love him with all my soul.

Thus motivational stories this morning hopefully can inspire you for this  discourse just how we should appreciate hidup.mudah bermanfaat.sekian hope and gratitude.

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