SOME TIPS FOR FAMILY DIGITAL

some tips for digital family -postingan this time was successful tips for families future in demand in the era of globalization .A US study showed that children aged 8 to 18 years there the average spend 7.5 hours a day using digital devices (smartphones, tablets, etc.). This might not reflect the global situation in Indonesia. But look at the development of digital users so rapidly, lest the same thing could happen in our family.

The problem is, many studies have shown that reliance on digital media can bring negative effects are alarming. Children become more aware than communicating digital communication significantly. Moreover, the experts said, the greatest danger of this development is the destruction of the parent-child relationship. Also the kids so can not learn life and build character like never learn empathy, lazy communication (oral), less developed his emotional intelligence, lacking in social skills, problem solving, listening, and the like.

To overcome the bad consequences that may hinder their parents do not get involved in the digital world. What to do as a parent is to filter them out. For that parenting expert, Dr. Michele Borba, provides tips for parents keep a close relationship with his children.

•  Note the placement of the television and computer

Do not place the TV in the children's room. Likewise with the computer. Better to put the computer in the family room so that parents can easily greet children or see what he was doing.

• Increase of face-to-face interaction

Face to face communication between parent and child will enrich their relationship. Use this kind of interaction to teach children develop communication skills. For example, if the child likes to watch a football game, discuss who the team will win the game or about what would happen. If children like anything else, invite discussion about it. Point out that during the discussion, do it face to face, see the other person's eyes.

•  Push to have time with friends

Friends play an important part in the lives of children for the development of socialization skills and emotions. Therefore see the schedule, if there is an agenda they meet friends at a certain time outside of school time. If not there and more time to play with digital equipment, then push so that they have plenty of time for his friends as well, not only communicate through the crockery.

•  Emphasize the "we" and not "I"

It's a lesson that life is not just for yourself. As social beings we have the environment surrounding the impact on everyday life. There's no way to live alone. Therefore find ways to make our family members have the time or play a role in the community, for example, with good neighbors. Teach how to be able to help others and respect to elders.

•  Digital Learning

To be able to filter out what is beneficial for children and which ones should be avoided, the parents have to know the development of technology. Therefore, do not neglect to read about the technology that interests children. Discuss with other parents if you do not understand. Do not hesitate to ask the child about what he likes technology, if necessary, ask the children to teach how to use it. In this way parents can understand what the digital technology.

• Go into the digital world they

Ask join their game in a certain time (play along or just see them play). Tanya music video / movie so what their favorite and See a joint. But do not forget, during the watch to keep in touch. For example, if you see them busy chatting to friends while watching television, wondering what he was doing without the need to see the contents of the message he wrote.

•  Arrange regular face to face events with children

For example, if during these lazy child if invited to have dinner together in the dining room and prefer to watch television in his room or in front of the computer, this time for the rules to be able to have dinner together and hear their stories of life at school or with friends.

During dinner, turn off the television, so that attention is not divided and communication can work well. In fact, if necessary, SMS messages, call chat, and phone calls do not need to be answered. The important thing, "family time" this should be discussed in advance with the children so that they are responsible to follow and feel forced.

•  Create a rule using a mobile phone

erhaps in school children, there are already rules that they can not carry a cell phone. But parents also have to convince them that there are certain times where using mobile phones / tablets are not recommended. In addition to the school, children are not encouraged to use digital device meals together, exercising, studying, and when to go / went home. It is better to greet than busy parents called friends.

Thus some tips for families in the digital era hopefully be useful to you semua.maaf if there are words that are less pleasing in your heart this paper only  picture to the era of globalization

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